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Divorce and Retirement Accounts: Qualified Domestic Relations Orders

Special SituationsUpdated 2025-06-26

A divorce decree is not enough to divide an ERISA-qualified retirement plan. The Employee Retirement Income Security Act of 1974 prohibits alienation of plan benefits to anyone other than the participant — except via a Qualified Domestic Relations Order. A QDRO is a separate court order, drafted to the plan's specifications, that directs the plan administrator to pay benefits to an alternate payee (typically the ex-spouse). Without a properly drafted and qualified QDRO, the plan administrator cannot release the funds.

Statutory framework

QDROs are authorized by ERISA §206(d)(3), 29 U.S.C. §1056(d)(3), and parallel Internal Revenue Code §414(p). The statute requires the order to clearly identify:

The order must not require the plan to provide any type or form of benefit not otherwise provided, require increased benefits, or pay benefits to an alternate payee that are required to be paid to another alternate payee under a prior QDRO.

What is and is not a QDRO

Tax treatment

A distribution from a qualified plan to the alternate payee under a QDRO is taxable to the alternate payee, not the participant. §72(t) early-withdrawal penalty does not apply to a QDRO distribution paid directly to the alternate payee, even if either party is under 59½ — an important planning point. If the alternate payee rolls the distribution to an IRA, the §72(t) exception is lost for subsequent withdrawals.

Worked example: $1M 401(k)

Husband age 45, $1,000,000 in 401(k). Divorce decree awards wife (age 43) 50% as marital property. Three settlement options:

Common mistakes

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